In our lives, we planned the our future,careers, education, our business, and even our finances but we have forgotten to plan our love life. It seems that we leave it by chance. Chance of having a good relationship is difficult. Mostly we end up in a wrong person because we don’t know who our partners are. We are blinded by our feelings that we like him or her. Planning is not bad but it will turn bad when we put conditions. Emotion is always the big factor.
Happy ending is always good one to think off. However, there are a lot of things to say but you cannot describe. Some women fall to a complete stranger. There are a lot of people say that they learned to love that person. They cannot explain as to how they fall for him. To some, physical attraction is so important. As if they see the guy, they are going to worship it without reservation. They are being hypnotized and disregard anything. To some, attitude is a factor, they don’t mind the physical aspect as long as his loyal and have a sense of humor.
When you are in dating, you could not possibly say that this man has no qualities and you don’t like him. Women will not be with a man who do not have or do not meet the required conditions except he is unique from the others. In blind dating, you could not possible say that you know the person unless you have been there with him. He is a complete stranger because you don’t know the guy.
The only weird about dating, you don’t know what are the qualities that she needs. Only physical and the way the persons communicates with you. You are completely blind. However, this kind of dating, to some it works.
Women should have an inquisitive mind to think what kind of man is he. Some men are not happy to their present wife that’s why they are getting another because just to satisfy their unsatisfied desire. As a general rule, you cannot seduce a happy man. A man cannot think in getting in a relationship with another woman if he is happy to be with you.
There’s a big difference about stunningly beautiful and quite a bit beautiful. When a person already loves you more than him and gives you everything to make you happy. She’s stunningly beautiful. However, if a woman love a guy but the guy has no intimate feelings towards her despite of her effort to look good in his presence. It simply means that there is no connection, no spark, no chemistry between the two.
Being in the category of quite a bit beautiful is not a problem because there are a lot of men who will love the way you are. God will provide you a good man. If you will just wait and believe that God gives you one. Never push yourself to a man who does not love you. Respect and love will come if you learned to love and respect yourself. Learn it first.
Don’t ask yourself as to why can’t you be with him? Or why he can’t love you the same as her or why can’t you be lovers?
Anger and pain comes in when you asked those questions. Getting angry of yourself will be experience when you envy the other by not experiencing the love, care, and everything that you need to experience at the time he was in your arms. Pain comes in when you see that she’s happy and satisfied in his arms. Give yourself a little respect. If you don’t, who would? Just imagine that no one will respect you, even yourself. It is hard for you to recover that way.
Don’t fix a relationship alone because relationship is composed of two. In learning to love, it would be difficult for you to give him the trust that he had lost. You deserve to be happy, to be loved, and respect. It is your right.
Let time heal the wounds. To let go someone you loved is a hard decision. Remember that it is all about your decision. A decision to be happy or to be sad is in your hands. Stay beautiful and be happy as always. Let go all the negatives. Try to learn the past to improve you and to have joyful relationship in the future. Ask God for guidance and a man who will love you not because of your beauty but the way you are.
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